Confessions From The Coach: A Look At The Last Few Years Of Relationship Transformation Success

(Plus, And Opportunity For A Free Coaching Workshop)

[Note 2: In case you are wondering, this post is a FOLLOW UP TO THIS VIDEO, which received so many thoughtful and encouraging comments that it really touched me.]

The Story Of What It Takes To Transform Your Relationship For The Better (Even When Things Seem Hopeless)

As I’m sure most of you know, this whole relationship coaching thing that I’ve been doing isn’t just something I picked up on a whim.

This is something I had to learn through challenge and my own personal growth… and wanted to share with others who may be having a hard time with their relationships.

I’ve had to overcome fears, anxieties, limiting beliefs, and face my own shadows in order to have a great marriage.

And at first, I didn’t know if any of this would work.

However, after being together with my wife for almost 15 years… and the two of us being still very much in love despite all the challenges we’ve been through, I think something is working.

How This Whole Relationship Coaching Thing Got Started

When I first started taking calls to help people with their relationships, I’d listen and do what I could to help them.

However, after a while, I started to notice similarities between people’s relationships.

That is to say that a lot of people were going through similar problems that were holding them back. (The relationship problems presented themselves in different ways, but the root cause seemed to be similar.)

And before long, I started structuring things to address these common problems.

What Blew My Mind Was That I Was Going Against The Grain Of What Most People Were Hearing From Other Coaches, Therapists, Etc.

Don’t get me wrong, I never went out of my way to do things differently.

It’s just that I could see simple patterns and a relatively easy way to correct some of the big problems.

And at first I got some resistance because I wasn’t just telling people to blindly do No Contact, play mind games, or overanalyze who is initiating.

All those things just seemed irrelevant.

But Then Things Changed When The Success Stories Started Coming In…

I remember the first one. A man who saved his relationship after his girlfriend left him… insisting that it was over.

They ended up getting back together and are now married.

Then more and more success stories started coming in.

None of them were following the “tried and true” strategies that I seemed to hear parroted in every other corner of the internet.

It didn’t make sense. Everyone else seemed so confident about No Contact and playing hard to get and all the usual things.

But the direct, obvious approach was working so well.

In case you missed it, here are a few success stories I put together recently.

How I Started To Feel Frustrated

I enjoyed working with people and seeing them make a transformation in their relationships.

However, personal or private coaching was expensive for most people… and just not within reach… Even our Commit program was a bit much for a lot of people who wanted or needed help.

I started offering single 1-on-1 sessions, but real and meaningful change is rare with just one single coaching session.

Plus, I also personally, wanted to know what happened to my clients. Did they save their relationship? Did they move on? With a single coaching call, I found it hard to know when they would just disappear without sharing an update.

So, Here’s What I’m Coming To… Here’s What’s Being Demanded Of Me… And Here’s What I Feel Compelled To Do For You

I don’t just want to help you draft up one text message and never know what happens after you send it.

And I don’t want you to feel lost either after a coaching call when you just don’t know what to do next.

And I also know that our year-long Commit program can be too much for some people.

So, I want to create a shorter term coaching workshop program to help you make meaningful transformations in your relationship.

If You’re Serious About Relationship Coaching, Here’s What I Need From You

If you and I are going to do this together, I’m going to need some help.

First, I’ll need to call in some of our team members to help me coach you.

And Secondly, I’m going to need you to help me by being open minded and coachable.

…But also in helping me create the exact perfect-fit program for you.

I’ve been really humbled by all the responses and interest when I mentioned this in previous videos.

But I don’t want to put in the effort to do this if I’m just mis-reading your interest in coaching.

So, I thought I’d put together an interest list.

If enough people sign up for this list (I’m thinking 250 or more), then we’ll go ahead with this idea.

And I’ll put together a coaching workshop. Everyone on the interest list will be invited to participate at no cost.

All I ask for in return is a little bit of feedback and your opinions.

If that’s something you’re serious about, please join the interest list here.

And if you’re not interested, we can cut this whole conversation here and now. No worries :)

Infinite Love And Gratitude,

Clay